Vidhya's bday wish for me... :)

Sound of watch ramming my ears
Music of soul filling my heart.
Things cannot be more beautiful
Sans you around me.

Given a seive and a pensieve of thoughts
Asked to filter the best, nonetheless
Every moment will be with you in it.
Ultimate gift you are to me.

Given a boon in form of you
Wish upon a star for my star
Praying for your health and happiness
Just in time to burst out at its peaks.

You taught love, You lived love
You showed smile, You infected with smile
You preached life, You inspired life..
In all - you are,were and will be the best.

For my teacher, For my friend, For my sister, For my mother,
For you... Here is the special wish

Happy birthday... :)
You are too special for words to explain.
Love you... :)

special friendship day - Vidhya

This is the special friendship day edition for u..

Friendship for many just blossoms
For some friendship happens - But
Friendship however whatever becomes special.
So special when it is you.

Mother makes the greatest friend
Sister makes the sensible friend.
Partner makes the inevitable friend
U have been all these friends and so the best.

Friends can influence us in certain ways,
Friends can make us smile at blue times
Friends can make the best shoulders for all.
Just a few like you inspire,influence and become inevitable.

No day can be more special than this
No actions can explain what this is
No words can explain this better,
"I Love You My friend!"


Happy friendship day to the friend who I treasure the most in my life..

Luv
Vidhya

காதல்!

கலர் கலராய் நம் கண் முன் விரியும்

தோட்டத்து பூக்கள் போல

மனதிற்கு சந்தோஷத்தை தரும் ஒரு விஷயம்,

காதல்!!!!!!

Start Small... to achieve BiG!

We were once babies, the first day we were born, we couldn't feed ourselves, we didn't run up and down the stairs, and we couldn't even change our own diapers. Our parents or caretakers were the ones who fed us, changed our diapers, gave us a bath and taught us how to stand and walk.

We learned how to stand with our feet, then walk, and then run!

So don't be too hard on yourself when things are not going as fast as you want them to be and don't give up on life when you fail in pursuing your dreams and goals. A little progress is better than nothing at all. It is very important to keep learning and growing every day.

The excitement in your life comes from the fact that we see a sign of progress in your life. When you feel like you are progressing in your life, that's when you feel happy and excited! That's why it is important to set a new goal after we achieve our previous goal. We went through a process of growing, from small to big and from big to bigger and bigger.

If you've ever taken the Tube in London, you've seen the signs posted all over that say, "Mind the Gap." They refer to the distance between the station platform and the train itself. But think about a different kind of gap: the one between what we tell ourselves we want, and what we're actually doing-or, more pointedly, not doing-to make it happen.

Often, what's lurking in the gap is fear. Fear in its familiar guises--shyness, social anxiety, panic attacks, emotional paralysis--or fear in the form of self-condemnation. Other times, what keeps us from bridging the gap is overwhelm. Overwhelmed by lack of information. Or, conversely, overwhelmed by information overload.

Another key problem is a lack of focus. get yourself a one-track mind. The only way to beat status quo is to quit being status quo - get a plan together for a goal, whatever that goal is, and work it.

• Give Yourself A Reasonable Deadline
• Identify What Distracts You And Counter It
• Reward Little Successes

StaRt SmAll to achieve bIG :)

after a looooooong time, i came across a beautiful song, that perfectly fits. endha paatta kettalum adhula unna theduren suji nu solvella.. andha maadhiri indha paattula, i saw 'us'.

this song need not necessarily be between lovers.

it fits so well for me and you, when our relationship cannot be put in any suitable definition, when we cannot surely say, you are 'this' to me.. bcoz, we still do not know what that 'this' mean!

"கடலினில் மீனாக, இருந்தவள் நான்
உனக்கென கரை தாண்டி வந்தவள் தான்,
துடித்திருந்தேன் தரையினிலே ..
திரும்பிவிட்டேன் என் கடலிடமே .."

I just cannot explain this.. hope you understand these lines and relate it with my situation easily..

"ஒரு நாள் சிரித்தேன் மறு நாள் வெறுத்தேன்,

உன்னை நான் கொல்லாமல் கொன்று புதைத்தேனே,
மன்னிப்பாயா ..மன்னிப்பாயா ..மன்னிப்பாயா .."

ஆழமான வரிகள்! many times i have done this to you... i would smile and show all my affection to you, pour out my love for you, send you mails after mails and cards after cards...sometimes i would show all my anger, sorrow towards you, hurt you with my words without understanding your situation, that would have been a real hell for you..

when i heard these lines.. i really felt bad about myself. True..at many times, unnai kollamal kondru pudhaiththirukkiren, SORRY FOR THAT da... I am really sorry..

and you have told me time and again that you love me lots. you had told me that i have guided you in the right path, else you would not have had your ambitions fulfilled and I changed your life.. now read these words what the male sings:

காற்றிலே ஆடும் காகிதம் நான், நீதான் என்னை கடிதம் ஆக்கினாய்,

அன்பில் தொடங்கி அன்பில் முடிக்கிறேன், என் கலங்கரை விளக்கமே ..

i see you in these lines and feel you too! you have stressed your love and affection for me many different times, assured me that all others are many miles apart, you have kept me in a pedestal and i am everything to you.

but sometimes I doubted your love, i had thought, if you will forget me in life, if you will leave me and go.. i have questioned you many times, why did you ever come in my life? feel bad for that now. i have told you that i cry at nights missing you, your love....

ஏன் என் வாழ்வில் வந்தாய் கண்ணா நீ ..

போவாயோ கானல் நீர் போலே தோன்றி..
அனைவரும் உறங்கிடும் இரவெனும் நேரம்,
எனக்கது தலையணை நனைத்திடும் நேரம் ..

and this song ends again with the male voice re-assuring that

கண்ணே தடுமாறி நடந்தேன்,
நூலில் ஆடும் மழையாகி போனேன்,

உன்னால் தான் கலைஞனாய் ஆனேனே ..
தொலை தூரத்தில் வெளிச்சம் நீ,
உனை நோக்கியே எனை ஈர்க்கிறாயே..

மேலும் மேலும் உருகி உருகி உனை எண்ணி ஏங்கும் இதயத்தை என்ன செய்வேன் ..

this re-assurance from you.. i always get... and i am happy for the same.

but why should i get re-assured? why should i get doubt in the first place? why do i hurt you many times in spite of understanding your love for me?

is it just possessiveness?????????